Do anyone else have a soft spot for their ex crushes?
I recently found out that i still have like 1% affection for my ex crush whom i liked for years. We recently hanged out as friends (I’m attached btw, she’s not) and she held my fingers etc and other physical contact that is considered normal between female friends. I don’t remember her being as touchy, anyway whenever she does that i felt like a spark in me and I actually liked the physical contact.
Since then I have been thinking of her from time to time and it was like she gave me the physical contact that i craved for when i was still crushing on her. It felt nice but i am not supposed to feel this way so I’m vexed. It was like this soft spot in me suddenly pops up. Is this considered cheating? How should i deal with this?